(finally... 3 months after)
nope... that would make the month january if so.
this is how long i have had this drafted.
so i'll start like this
(finally...5 months after)
or maybe i'll start it like this:
let's pretend the air is getting crisp and cool.
colorful leaves are starting to fall from the trees...
it's one week from thanksgiving (do you know what side dishes you're making yet?)
regardless, 5 months later or not, i owe my baby girl a birthday post.
this little one, my baby... is FOUR.
and i just can't get enough of this child.
we celebrated with a themed party that mia chose herself:
a tea party
and how fitting it was, for she is my dainty little one with a love of tea parties.
some decor pics:
banner made of doilies
pink and white frosted cupcakes
thanks to the goodwill, i picked up a box of old fashioned floral china, a teapot and teacups for dirt cheap.
we had hot tea (both my kids love it) with sugar cubes and honey,
raspberry ice tea,
and hot chocolate
thanks to pinterest, i made a 3 tier server using clay pots and dishes for our little finger sandwiches.
spray painted the pieces white, hot glued them together, and lined with scrapbook paper.
really cheap and fun to do!
Before the party, Mia and I had a super quick little mother-daughter tea party photo shoot together :)
pinkies up!
LOVE this little girl.
can't even express it in words...
the little craft for the party was making little tea party "hats" - but they were headbands. so... a modern twist i guess. the table was set up with black velvet headbands, big flowers, tulle, lace ribbon, feathers and hot glue guns.
the inspiration came from the royal wedding of course :)
(there were some lovely little kate middletons sitting around the table)
i think the moms might have had more fun doing this part...
but really, they kind of had to do this part, b/c of course i picked a craft that the kids were unable to fully do themselves.
we also made little paper fans out of floral cardstock and put little sparkly jewels on them.
tied with tulle.
sometimes a girl can get rather warm sipping all that hot tea.
i mean... look how dainty and cute they are.
i wanted to keep my kitchen looking like this for the rest of the year.
i'd have kept the little girls too, but that would cause me to have 7 daughters and jon and nolan would have been way outnumbered.
some special guests and friends :)
(catherine and ella got mia her first makeup set which mia just loves. it's just so hard not to laugh out loud when she comes out of her room saying she just "did her makeup." she knows it's just for fun, but i love how i'm already telling her that the secret to wearing makeup is to make it look like you're not wearing any.
avery, jillian, kenzie and chloe - all special friends/guests, and sweet sweet girls!

i think this is why it takes me so long to do these posts...
(not just due to the many-much pictures i post)
... because i just can't sum up just how crazy special my kids are, how crazy much i love them, nor how crazy awesome their growth was this past year.
mia, my love.
God knew what He was doing when He made you. Oh yes He did.
He knew your little personality was going to win many hearts; mommy's & daddy's for sure, of course.
Oh how He loves you. Oh how we love you.
This has been your most "shy" year yet, from age 3-4.
It has been a little trying to say the least. There are many times I didn't enjoy your shyness this past year. Not just because it was annoying or difficult to handle (but yes it was sometimes), but because I felt bad for you. To see you cry from the moment you got up in front with your preschool class when you were to sing songs for a program (halloween, thanksgiving... and you didn't even make it to the stage for the Christmas program - you came out with your class and went directly to my lap). I have that little teary face of yours, coming through the double doors, engraved in my brain...just in tears of the very thought of getting up on that stage, as i motioned for you to come directly to me. We learned very rapidly that it just wasn't worth those tears in the slightest. broke my heart.
I know you are not supposed to be just like me in being outgoing or performing.
that's really really okay.
what's fun for me won't necessarily be fun for you.
I just feel SO bad at seeing you so upset.
So stage fright is one thing. but the shyness goes beyond that. It extends to any kind of talking in front of a small group of people or one on one with a person or friend. At times you can't even look people in the eye when they're talking to you. Even with extended family members.
sometimes you're just in a "mood." a mood that doesn't want anyone but mommy or daddy.
So, we're learning.
we're learning how to help you feel confidant and comfortable.
you may always be shy. and that's OKAY.
but, we're telling you a lot that you can't be rude.
you can be shy, just not rude.
you have done increasingly better at this towards the middle of your 4th year!
you are saying your please and thank you's and trying with all your might to reply back to people, even if it's the quietest little voice.
good job love. you're doing it.
it used to really bother me (okay, still does at times) when people would kind of joke and laugh a little at how shy you were/are. it's not something to joke about.
and sometimes it's not that people are laughing at you, but laughing about something cute you did.... but if you have the slightest inkling that people are laughing at you, you shut down (or just start crying). any confidence goes out the window (and of course it does, i get it).
i'm realizing how difficult it can be for you - and maybe how extremely sensitive you are - and we're learning how to adjust.
it's OKAY.
big brother nolan loves to try and help you through these times as well. sometimes it doesn't help though, cause he'll just do all the talking for you and not even let you try if you wanted to! ;)
recently he introduced you to someone saying, "this is my sister mia. she's really shy."
so sweet of him to stand up for you, at the same time, your shyness does not define you!
so, again, we're learning. telling you, "i feel shy sometimes too mia. but i also can feel happy, and sad, and scared..."
nolan is a sweetie though - today in the car, we were talking about the upcoming spring program you'll have at school (where they sing songs as a class in the church sanctuary on the stage) - and unsure if you'll do it just yet - he said, "mia, just do what i do. picture everyone in their underwear."
i pray we can raise you to have confidence in who you are, who loves herself and who God made you to be.
cause you are AMAZING. and a beautiful creation with a sweet spirit, a kind soul, and the most adorable precious little voice in the whole wide world.
and you are smart! you can write words if i tell you the letters.
Your vibrant personality is so much fun and you are really becoming a big girl with using your manners, having a great time at school 2 days a week, having playdates with friends, and sharing sweet conversations with people.
So, I am really pulling back from using that word "shy" with you now.
moving on...
you are our artist!
your coloring astounds me at your age.
you love it, and you're good at it. really good.
i think we sit down and color together almost every day.
same with puzzles. you're kind of a puzzle pro and.
you will sit and do 8 puzzles (and then line them up) :)
you make the BEST silly faces.
you can be super duper silly and i love when you get in those goofy moods where you crack yourself up and can't stop laughing.
it is SO cute!!!
this ranks up there as one of your all time best funny faces.
SQUISH!!!!!!!!!
you love your cousins.
you have a great time when you're with all of them, even the boys (or kellan for now since baby tyce has some more growing to do).
but i just love this picture i came across of the 3 girl cousins. so sweet. you love them so much and whenever you 3 are together there is most definitely dressing up involved.
you are blessed with the sweetest most wonderful, loving cousins and time with them is precious.
(i can only imagine you 3 at a mall together when you're older - yikes).
you are meticulous. you like to line things up. you like to color coordinate things. you like to make patterns, arrange things in a certain order....
is there a word for this? ;)
just a random pic of you sitting at the table, lining up your princess shoes. such a "you" thing.
tiny dancer.
you love to dance. we are rehearsing right now with 8 other little girls for a dance you'll (hopefully?) do in church on mother's day to "come thou fount."
i love watching you dance. as precise as you try and be with doing the steps correctly, you have those moments in the house when music is on, and you just dance. joyfully, in your own little world, where your little soul just shines.
i need to put a video on here of a dance i caught on video that you were doing which literally made me have tears rolling down my cheeks. it was a worship song to shane and shane's "yearn" and words just can't express how sweet it was.

your voice.
little munchkin voice that daddy and i just LOVE. oh my word.
when you are trying to explain something or tell us of something of importance, and you are talking, we just cannot help but smile. immediately.
(ok, maybe not if you're telling on nolan or whining about something, that's not too fun)
one of my favorite things about your voice is when you say a "b" instead of a "v" in words.
so, if you need to take a "bitamin" and then wanted to watch a "bideo" and you love to color"bery" much, and when we're playing and you say, "let's betend...(pretend)" ...ohhhh i can't not smile. to make it even more awesome, you start talking with your hands trying to "show" us what you mean, and you throw some "like's" in there to
really try and depict what you mean and it's just too adorable. i just need to post some videos so my bloggy friends can hear you.
you are a good little eater (good for a four year old at least) and have started eating turkey and cheese sandwiches which is cool. you have also recently started loving pepperoni (turkey pepperoni). you enjoy some pork tenderloin recipes that i've made, you always love pasta and rice, sloppy joes are one of you and nolan's favorites, and you have even started loving quinoa!!
your favorite colors are pink, purple and blue.
you and nolan are such good friends. you play together so well and you somehow find a way to incorporate princesses & ponies with trains, monster trucks and cars.
i love it.
(photo from Easter morning)
ok little one, this post could go on and on about how special of a little girl you are and how dear you are to us, so i gotta stop somewhere.
i'm hoping to get better at posting short quick blogs about the cute things you and nolan do or say, even if it's one or two lines (i say that, yet it never happens - i'll try better, k?)
like, last night after you were watching star wars with nolan and daddy and you called darth vadar "black vadar" - i just thought that was cute.
thank you for the girlyness you bring to our household mia (as if mommy's girlyness wasn't enough)!
you are our sunshine, our petite little flower.
we look forward to the rest of this year before you turn 5 and how much MORE growing you'll do!
we can't thank God enough for you, our baby girl.
we praise Him because you are fearfully and wonderfully and beautifully made....
we love you.